Feb 1, 2021
Guest Blog by A.J. Benjamin — I used to be gay. Sort of. But I don’t really consider myself “ex-gay,” either. The “gay” label is a social construct that, to me, has no objective basis in true reality. When we don’t understand something, we tend to make up all sorts of...
Jun 26, 2019
By Rich Wyler, Founder & Director of Brothers Road — What do men who are married to women but who also experience varying degrees of same-sex attractions wish their wives understood about them and their SSA? As head of a non-profit, international community of men...
Jun 26, 2019
By Rich Wyler, Founder & Director of Brothers Road — What do women who are married to men who experience varying degrees of same-sex attractions wish their husbands understood about how his SSA affects them as wives? As head of a non-profit, international...
May 8, 2019
Guest Blog by Stephen Done — I began my journey with facing same-sex attraction head-on with the assumption that nothing could change. I was so convinced at one point that no change was possible that I ranted to my wife about how I was so frustrated that my dad...
Apr 2, 2019
Guest Blog by Anna — I mentioned a month ago that my husband was going to do some in-depth therapy. Technically it’s not therapy, but “an experiential weekend of self-discovery, brotherhood, personal-growth, and inner-healing work.” And it’s awesome. I was somewhat...
Mar 8, 2019
Guest Blog by Anna — It’s been exactly 24 weeks since my husband disclosed that he has unwanted same-sex attraction. It seems strange to write 24 weeks, because it feels more like 24 months. We have traveled so far in such a short amount of time. I no longer feel...
Feb 12, 2019
Guest Blog by Stephen Done — “I am good and valuable just as I am.” “I have brothers who see my shadows and accept me just as I am.” These two truths are taught to every man who attends Journey into Manhood (JiM), a weekend retreat sponsored by Brothers on a Road...
Dec 22, 2018
Guest Blog by Stephen Done — It is a common misconception that people who experience same-sex attraction cannot find happiness without having a same-sex partner. But through my own experiences and observations of other people in similar situations, I know that...
Dec 13, 2018
Guest Blog by Stephen Done — My story is my own, not someone else’s. My experience is mine. Just because someone else, or many other people, have a different experience does not mean that my experience must conform to theirs. A frequent refrain we hear today is, “You...
