Mar 29, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— There’s a quiet lie many of us carry without even realizing it:If I’m healing, I should be getting better all the time. Stronger. Clearer. More in control. Less reactive. Always moving forward. But that’s not how real healing works. For men doing...
Mar 11, 2026
By Rich Wyler, Brothers Road — In Los Angeles in 1987, at the age of 25, I attended my first—and only—service at a gay-affirming Metropolitan Community Church, a church founded by a former Pentecostal pastor who had been defrocked for homosexuality. I walked in with a...
Mar 9, 2026
Blog by Sholom— When a man does his work and begins to understand himself better — his needs, his wounds, his longing for connection — a frightening question often arises: What if the people I love most will never be able to love me in the way I need? It’s a fair...
Feb 18, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— They say to write what you know, and unfortunately, I know. If you’ve ever wondered why we sometimes feel disconnected, unmotivated, or strangely numb during moments when we want to feel alive, there’s a simple — and slightly inconvenient —...
Feb 9, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— The Damage Of Comparison In An Algorithm Age Comparison has always been a trap. But for men today, (all men, not just men with Same-Sex Attraction) it’s no longer just an internal habit—it’s a system we’re immersed in. One designed to move,...
Jan 8, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— Faithful Anxiety & Fears Too many men and women who struggle with attraction to the same sex grow up believing that they themselves are the sin. Not their actions. Not their choices. Their very existence. They internalize the message that...
Jan 2, 2026
By Rich Wyler, director and founder, Brothers Road— Most people don’t realize how much of their life is quietly governed by one question: “What will they think of me?” That single concern shapes what we say, what we share, and what we hide. It influences how freely we...
Dec 23, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— Creating a Healing Tool Kit Along our journeys, we pick up tools. Tools of healing and growth. Tools for making boundaries. Tools that learn to say no. Tools to reach out and find connection (which is the real need beneath so much of what we...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— There’s this horizon people seem to be traveling toward. I know I’ve been trying to. A mystical destination just beyond the horizon where things will be bigger, better, safer, warmer, and more enlightened. Many spend their entire...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— In my years of men’s work, there’s one four-letter word I’ve always carefully avoided. It’s caused me tremendous fear and has made my heart twist into knots. I’ve avoided it because of all it’s connotations and...
