Apr 11, 2025 | Acceptance, Healing Work, Self-worth, Spirituality
By Sholom–At Brothers Road, we’re all on a path of becoming—becoming more whole, more honest, more at peace. And one of the most courageous steps we take along that path is the decision to let go. Letting go doesn’t mean giving up. It doesn’t mean pretending...
Apr 10, 2025 | Acceptance, Possible Causes, Self-identity, Self-worth
By Rich Wyler — People have been asking and researching the question of what “causes” same-sex sexual attractions for as far back as homosexuality or same-sex sexual behaviors have been recognized. Of course, direct causation is almost impossible to prove....
Dec 2, 2022 | Acceptance, Being Real, Change, Choices, Core Needs, Courage, Friendship, Healing Work, Male Bonding, Marriage, Possible Causes, Self-identity, Self-worth, Spirituality
By Rich Wyler, Brothers Road Recently, pop singer and former missionary David Archuleta gave national media interviews in which he embraced a gay or queer identity and said he was stepping away from religion because he couldn’t reconcile his religion with his...
Jul 26, 2021 | Acceptance, Assertiveness, Being Real, Change, Healing Work, Self-identity, Self-worth
Guest blog by Eric ([email protected]) — I have been involved in what’s being described as “conversion therapy” (whatever that is). I have participated both in individual therapy and groups. I’ve spent years in rooms and circles of like-minded men who span the...
Feb 19, 2021 | Core Needs, Healing Work, Male Bonding, Marriage, Porn Addiction, Possible Causes, Self-identity, Self-worth
Blog by Rich Wyler, Director, Brothers Road — A woman called me feeling devastated. Her husband says he loves her and even seems to enjoy intimacy with her, but he keeps falling back into an old habit — using porn. And not just any porn. Male porn. Gay porn. She was,...
Feb 1, 2021 | Acceptance, Assertiveness, Being Real, Core Needs, Courage, Healing Work, Self-worth
Guest Blog by Sholom — As men, we’re constantly comparing trying to figure out who is really the alpha male. We’re comparing the size of our muscles, who has the deepest voice, who can run the fastest, make the most money and a slew of other things I...
