Mar 29, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— There’s a quiet lie many of us carry without even realizing it:If I’m healing, I should be getting better all the time. Stronger. Clearer. More in control. Less reactive. Always moving forward. But that’s not how real healing works. For men doing...
Feb 18, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— They say to write what you know, and unfortunately, I know. If you’ve ever wondered why we sometimes feel disconnected, unmotivated, or strangely numb during moments when we want to feel alive, there’s a simple — and slightly inconvenient —...
Jan 8, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— Faithful Anxiety & Fears Too many men and women who struggle with attraction to the same sex grow up believing that they themselves are the sin. Not their actions. Not their choices. Their very existence. They internalize the message that...
Dec 23, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— Creating a Healing Tool Kit Along our journeys, we pick up tools. Tools of healing and growth. Tools for making boundaries. Tools that learn to say no. Tools to reach out and find connection (which is the real need beneath so much of what we...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— In my years of men’s work, there’s one four-letter word I’ve always carefully avoided. It’s caused me tremendous fear and has made my heart twist into knots. I’ve avoided it because of all it’s connotations and...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— There’s a moment that sneaks up on me sometimes—quiet, almost innocent. I see someone walk into a room: confident, relaxed, magnetic. My first thought isn’t I want to be with him, it’s I want to be him. Not really be him, but I want his look....
