May 10, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— You’ve been carrying something that was never meant to be permanent. Maybe it’s time to put it down. There’s a shadow that follows many of us into the room — into men’s spaces, into prayer, into the quiet moments before sleep....
Mar 29, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— There’s a quiet lie many of us carry without even realizing it:If I’m healing, I should be getting better all the time. Stronger. Clearer. More in control. Less reactive. Always moving forward. But that’s not how real healing works. For men doing...
Jan 8, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— Faithful Anxiety & Fears Too many men and women who struggle with attraction to the same sex grow up believing that they themselves are the sin. Not their actions. Not their choices. Their very existence. They internalize the message that...
Dec 23, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— Creating a Healing Tool Kit Along our journeys, we pick up tools. Tools of healing and growth. Tools for making boundaries. Tools that learn to say no. Tools to reach out and find connection (which is the real need beneath so much of what we...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— There’s this horizon people seem to be traveling toward. I know I’ve been trying to. A mystical destination just beyond the horizon where things will be bigger, better, safer, warmer, and more enlightened. Many spend their entire...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by James S— What Is Healing? For most of my life, I thought healing meant being cured — waking up one day with no addiction, no unwanted attraction, no struggle. As a child, I remember sensing that something was “wrong” with me, feeling confused, alone, and...
