Mar 9, 2026
Blog by Sholom— When a man does his work and begins to understand himself better — his needs, his wounds, his longing for connection — a frightening question often arises: What if the people I love most will never be able to love me in the way I need? It’s a fair...
Feb 9, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— The Damage Of Comparison In An Algorithm Age Comparison has always been a trap. But for men today, (all men, not just men with Same-Sex Attraction) it’s no longer just an internal habit—it’s a system we’re immersed in. One designed to move,...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— There’s this horizon people seem to be traveling toward. I know I’ve been trying to. A mystical destination just beyond the horizon where things will be bigger, better, safer, warmer, and more enlightened. Many spend their entire...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— There’s a moment that sneaks up on me sometimes—quiet, almost innocent. I see someone walk into a room: confident, relaxed, magnetic. My first thought isn’t I want to be with him, it’s I want to be him. Not really be him, but I want his look....
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by James S— What Is Healing? For most of my life, I thought healing meant being cured — waking up one day with no addiction, no unwanted attraction, no struggle. As a child, I remember sensing that something was “wrong” with me, feeling confused, alone, and...
Dec 21, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— For many men who experience same-sex attraction (SSA), and many men in general, there lies a deeper story beneath the surface of yearning or desire. A story not only about sexuality, but about longing, loss, and the ache for connection that was...
