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What to Do When Your Family Can’t Love You the Way You Need

What to Do When Your Family Can’t Love You the Way You Need

Blog by Sholom— When a man does his work and begins to understand himself better — his needs, his wounds, his longing for connection — a frightening question often arises: What if the people I love most will never be able to love me in the way I need? It’s a fair...
Learning to Embrace Hope: A Realist’s Unexpected Journey

Learning to Embrace Hope: A Realist’s Unexpected Journey

Guest blog by Sholom— In my years of men’s work, there’s one four-letter word I’ve always carefully avoided. It’s caused me tremendous fear and has made my heart twist into knots. I’ve avoided it because of all it’s connotations and...
What Healing Really Means—and Why It Has Nothing to do With a Cure

What Healing Really Means—and Why It Has Nothing to do With a Cure

Guest blog by James S— What Is Healing? For most of my life, I thought healing meant being cured — waking up one day with no addiction, no unwanted attraction, no struggle. As a child, I remember sensing that something was “wrong” with me, feeling confused, alone, and...