Mar 9, 2026
Blog by Sholom— When a man does his work and begins to understand himself better — his needs, his wounds, his longing for connection — a frightening question often arises: What if the people I love most will never be able to love me in the way I need? It’s a fair...
Jan 8, 2026
Guest blog by Sholom— Faithful Anxiety & Fears Too many men and women who struggle with attraction to the same sex grow up believing that they themselves are the sin. Not their actions. Not their choices. Their very existence. They internalize the message that...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— There’s this horizon people seem to be traveling toward. I know I’ve been trying to. A mystical destination just beyond the horizon where things will be bigger, better, safer, warmer, and more enlightened. Many spend their entire...
Dec 21, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— For many men who experience same-sex attraction (SSA), and many men in general, there lies a deeper story beneath the surface of yearning or desire. A story not only about sexuality, but about longing, loss, and the ache for connection that was...
Dec 20, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— For those of us walking a path of healing, it’s easy to get caught in a loop of urgency. We want to feel better now. We want to move forward, shed old patterns, find peace, love well, and live free. Urgency can feel like a push toward survival,...
Dec 20, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— For years I feared I wasn’t enough. Not good enough. Not man enough. Not smart enough. Not handsome enough. It continued as I grew older. Into my teens. Into my marriage. It continued when I became a father. In workshops and peer led...
