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Who Are We Becoming? Identity, Labels, and Sexuality

Who Are We Becoming? Identity, Labels, and Sexuality

Guest blog by Sholom— We spend our whole lives figuring out who we are. Not just once, not just during adolescence, but repeatedly—through relationships, through loss, through who or what we love. Through what we fear. Identity is like a living thing. It shifts,...
When the Exotic Becomes Erotic: Why the Unfamiliar Feels So Powerful

When the Exotic Becomes Erotic: Why the Unfamiliar Feels So Powerful

Guest blog by Sholom— Have you ever noticed how the things that feel distant, mysterious, or just outside your reach can also feel strangely magnetic? That’s the essence of a psychological phenomenon often summed up as: the exotic becomes erotic. Curiosity Breeds More...
Fathering the UnFathered—Father Wounds, Masculinity, and Healing

Fathering the UnFathered—Father Wounds, Masculinity, and Healing

Guest blog by Sholom— For many men who experience same-sex attraction (SSA), and many men in general, there lies a deeper story beneath the surface of yearning or desire.  A story not only about sexuality, but about longing, loss, and the ache for connection that was...