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When the Exotic Becomes Erotic: Why the Unfamiliar Feels So Powerful

When the Exotic Becomes Erotic: Why the Unfamiliar Feels So Powerful

Guest blog by Sholom— Have you ever noticed how the things that feel distant, mysterious, or just outside your reach can also feel strangely magnetic? That’s the essence of a psychological phenomenon often summed up as: the exotic becomes erotic. Curiosity Breeds More...
Fathering the UnFathered—Father Wounds, Masculinity, and Healing

Fathering the UnFathered—Father Wounds, Masculinity, and Healing

Guest blog by Sholom— For many men who experience same-sex attraction (SSA), and many men in general, there lies a deeper story beneath the surface of yearning or desire.  A story not only about sexuality, but about longing, loss, and the ache for connection that was...
Redefining Strength: Vulnerability, Masculinity, and Emotional Healing

Redefining Strength: Vulnerability, Masculinity, and Emotional Healing

Guest blog by Sholom— What is strength? I once saw a meme that said something like, “the strongest people find the courage and the caring to help others, even if they are going through their own storm.” And sure, there’s truth to that — for some men. But I’ve...
Why Would a Straight Husband Look at Gay Porn?

Why Would a Straight Husband Look at Gay Porn?

Blog by Rich Wyler, Director, Brothers Road — A woman called me feeling devastated. Her husband says he loves her and even seems to enjoy intimacy with her, but he keeps falling back into an old habit — using porn. And not just any porn. Male porn. Gay porn. She was,...