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Who Are We Becoming? Identity, Labels, and Sexuality

Who Are We Becoming? Identity, Labels, and Sexuality

Guest blog by Sholom— We spend our whole lives figuring out who we are. Not just once, not just during adolescence, but repeatedly—through relationships, through loss, through who or what we love. Through what we fear. Identity is like a living thing. It shifts,...
Fathering the UnFathered—Father Wounds, Masculinity, and Healing

Fathering the UnFathered—Father Wounds, Masculinity, and Healing

Guest blog by Sholom— For many men who experience same-sex attraction (SSA), and many men in general, there lies a deeper story beneath the surface of yearning or desire.  A story not only about sexuality, but about longing, loss, and the ache for connection that was...
Healing Takes Time: Why Going Slow Is Not a Failure

Healing Takes Time: Why Going Slow Is Not a Failure

Guest blog by Sholom— For those of us walking a path of healing, it’s easy to get caught in a loop of urgency. We want to feel better now. We want to move forward, shed old patterns, find peace, love well, and live free. Urgency can feel like a push toward survival,...
Authenticity Over Fake Smiles: Why Realness Matters More Than Image

Authenticity Over Fake Smiles: Why Realness Matters More Than Image

Guest blog by Sholom— Emotional Facades There’s a disconnect in the world we live in today from who we really are. I wear this mask for this friend and change for the next. We turn on this persona for work and then change who we are completely for play (if we...