Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— We spend our whole lives figuring out who we are. Not just once, not just during adolescence, but repeatedly—through relationships, through loss, through who or what we love. Through what we fear. Identity is like a living thing. It shifts,...
Dec 22, 2025
Guest blog by James S— For many men who are attracted to the same sex, friendship with another man can feel like a sanctuary — a place where we’re finally understood and seen for who we truly are. But sometimes, that same, beautiful closeness turns into something...
Dec 21, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— Have you ever noticed how the things that feel distant, mysterious, or just outside your reach can also feel strangely magnetic? That’s the essence of a psychological phenomenon often summed up as: the exotic becomes erotic. Curiosity Breeds More...
Dec 21, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— This won’t be the most eloquent thing I’ve shared but I think it’s still very much worth sharing. Old stories— we all have them. The ones that play like background noise in our minds, especially when we’re tired, stretched thin, or trying...
Dec 20, 2025
Guest blog by Sholom— Emotional Facades There’s a disconnect in the world we live in today from who we really are. I wear this mask for this friend and change for the next. We turn on this persona for work and then change who we are completely for play (if we...
Dec 2, 2022
By Rich Wyler, Brothers Road Recently, pop singer and former missionary David Archuleta gave national media interviews in which he embraced a gay or queer identity and said he was stepping away from religion because he couldn’t reconcile his religion with his...